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Sometimes we plan ahead, sometimes we don't.
It seems we all stick to a plan and then when it doesn't work out, we blame the plan. I believe it is good to set targets and goals, but sometimes the best things that happen to us are by fate.
It's easy to get stressed when things don't happen the way you imagined them, but that is ok. Everyone is unique, what path works for someone else, most likely won't for you. It can be the reason we imagined things were going to go in a certain direction, was a clouded judgement, or we were too frightened to take a risk.
If we really want to achieve something, we shouldn't worry about failure, but more what happens when we achieve it, this way we are thinking more positive. We all go in to situations and doom them to fail, whether it's a relationship or, a career move. We just can't help it sometimes, it's usually because of our preconceived ideas of how things should be, rather than what they are.
Things will never be how you have planned it, that is the reality. They could be better though, that is what makes life so exciting. If we knew what was always around the corner, life would be very dull and generic. Enjoy the moment, it will never happen again, if you are happy, does it really matter if you have stuck to a grand plan? No it certainly does not.
Remember to take time sometimes just to smile, even when life isn't how you want it to be, you have so much to smile about.
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